Tomorrow is my due date. If my body continues to follow this pattern of ignoring the calender then I’m going to be one of those girls who, when asked when my due date is, replies TODAY, AND QUIT LOOKING AT ME OR I’LL CRY.
I’m sure everyone always thinks this, but seriously, I never thought I would make it all the way to my actual due date. I don’t know why I thought this, only that maybe I just wanted it to happen that way so bad, which was really stupid because I’ve essentially been giving myself pre-due date due dates. And it doesn’t really help when so-and-so is SURE that it’s going to happen on this day, and then when THAT DAY comes and goes I’m all depressed and pissed that I’m still pregnant.
Sidenote: so-and-so is often me.
This past weekend I tried a lot of the home induction tricks, and here’s how it went down: mexican food gave me nothing but diarrhea which made me pray that I didn’t actually go into labor because ewww; taking long walks with Oliver caused flames to shoot out between my legs from my thighs rubbing together like two dry sticks in the middle of the wilderness; the glass of red wine tasted awesome and relaxed my mind, but not my uterus enough to start contracting; and sex just never happened because, well, there are complicated logistics involved when one is so mammoth and immobile.
I’ve done some serious self-examination lately trying to distinguish if I feel any different or have any pain, any cramp, any weird twinge, and when I do it’s only because I have to poop which is basically really disappointing. I mean, you think your body is preparing to have a baby and then, oops, not the baby I had in mind.
I’m ready. I’m really, really ready to hold my baby. My kitchen has never been cleaner. My floors have never been more sparkly. My legs have never been shaved with such frequency.
I’m ready.

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August 24, 2009 at 8:49 am
orangetreeblog
I know you are…and she will be soon. PROMISE. AND SO WORTH THE WAIT!
August 24, 2009 at 9:05 am
jen
i try to tell everyone that despite the foreverness of waiting… this is the last time that time itself will ever be slow again. cherish it, no matter how much of a conscious effort it is.
seriously, it’s true.
just relax, it’s going to happen.
August 24, 2009 at 9:56 am
Mo
The good news is…she’ll be here within a week. At least there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I went throught the EXACT same feelings. You’re just large, wait to have a baby but instead you get larger.
When ANdy and I had sex before baby [i cant believe im putting this on a public place...] it was also nearly impossible, but i was desperate and my dr said i was supposed to elevate my butt and just hang out a while there because the swimmers are supposed to eat away at the cervix or something…well, it just wasn’t working and i was so uncomfortable my throat was in my brain and I thought to myself WHY IN THE HELL would my doctor [whos never been pregnant!] ever think this possition at 10 months pregnant is possible? So I started laughing hysterically right in the middle of the main event and pee’d all over everyone and everything. And since my butt was majorly elevated the pee went towards my face. Gross I know. It was a freaking yard sale. BUt also freaking hillarious. Then I did laundry.
I love you. At least you baby is healthy and happy and not super premature. The longer she stays in the better sleeper and the better eater she’s supposed to be.
August 24, 2009 at 10:53 am
Courtney
I think Jen and Mo just gave you some great words of wisdom-she’s not premature, which is a blessing. And Jen’s right…. enjoy these moments while they last. Admire your stretchmark-less stomach, eat a blizzard without the guilt of knowing that it’s not”on the post-baby diet”, read a book in the glider in Ava’s room so that you can get used to it and get nice and comfy in it. As soon as you get to a good part in the book, BAM! She will probably interrupt it, thus beginning a long chain of the invasion of the children.
It’ll happen. But wouldn’t it be funny if she stayed in there for like, a few years?? I wonder how big you would get. I wonder if you would just fall forward like one of those blow up punching bags that has no balance. Hahahahaha….. I have a visual… and it’s awesome.
August 24, 2009 at 11:44 am
shan
i got SO tired of people telling me “enjoy these moments…rest now cuz you won’t be able to for a while”. and i never got to my due date. i remember thinking that, since kaia (baby #1) came 10 days early, that FOR SURE leia (#2), would be earlier (i’m glad she wasn’t 10 days early too, or her b-day woulda been 6.6.06)…but, anyways when the “10 day early mark” came and went. i remember calling my mom to get some sympathy and she had the nerve to say, “well, maybe you’ll go to your due date” (it sounds silly now, but i remember being SO annoyed that she had the nerve to say such words!…and then i cried) ha. anyways, i was so desperate to get her out. i looked up every “home induction trick”…eating pine apple, swinging on a swing, sex (if you’d call it that), etc. (pretty much everything except castor oil). then, when i went to my 39 week appt., she stripped my membranes and it worked the same day. maybe you could ask them to do that.
well, like your friend, mo said…1 more week at the most. i KNOW that seems like a year right now, but maybe today will be the day.
p.s.~i’ve been checking your blog so much to see if there’s any news that i feel like a stalker:). so, if you’re able to…i’d appreciate a quick post if your water breaks or contractions start or something. J/K…kinda.
August 24, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Jackie@Our Moments Our Memories
Can’t believe she’s almost here!!! I am so beyond excited for you. You better announce it on here the mintue she’s born.
Like you won’t have anything better to do, like cuddle with your new angel.
August 24, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Jessica
I can only imagine how excited you are to meet Avalon. It must be so much fun to think of who she will look like, how much she will weigh, will she have hair or not, what color her eyes will be, and what it will be like to finally be home with your little bundle of joy.
Parenthood is the best thing ever…exhausting but wonderful. I remember being very, very tired…holding Gavin in the middle of the night, such a precious time if you ask me, and just thanking God for such an amazing gift. Know you will be home soon enough and enjoying the next exciting chapter of your life. Your world will be forever changed, for the better:)
August 25, 2009 at 9:05 pm
SJC
just got an email from Chanell that you are in the hospital right now!
Good luck and God Bless.. xoxo